Loving Relationships

Awareness guidance for deep Union

Do you yearn to live in an ecstatic relationship with your Beloved? Do you yearn to co-create deep transparency, ecstatic intimacy, aligned abundance and shared cosmic consciousness expansion? We now have all the tools for living in truly loving relationships.

Mutual commitment to seeing the supreme Self in each other is what creates a Sacred Union. The path to genuine fulfillment involves falling in Love with the Source of Life, and going through the alchemical mystery of merging our polarities and the elements with the greater whole of creation in our temple of the relationship. This process opens higher consciousness in us.

We are complex beings with many many different aspects and layers to our being. It gets even more complex in relationships. With specific guidance we begin to realize that our true Self is covered up by clusters of young wounded parts, who are guarded by defense patterns, and the behavior patterns of these parts form our small identity, our narrative self. Awareness of these parts in ourselves and in our loved one is the BEGINNING of cultivating true love.

Once you are face to face with your own internal wounded parts and defense patterns and realize how these connect to the wounded parts and defense patterns of your beloved, EVERYTHING will begin to make sense. You will be able to create a genuinely SAFE & LOVING space for each other.

If you aspire for liberation and true love, you need to know from what you want to be liberated.

Understanding the unconscious defense patterns between you and your beloved changes everything. It is the best therapy and the most powerful relationship guidance.

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Line Dynamics

Your Profiles in Relationship

Choose your profiles and notice the keyword dynamics. These patterns really feel like who we are in the beginning. You will discover, that with safe & aware love, the defense patterns melt, as the shielding of our hearts will no longer be necessary. Love is being aware and tender for the process of witnessing each other in waking up from IDENTIFYING with these dynamics. These are conditioned patterns, NOT who we are.

Partner one
Partner two
1/3Investigator / Martyr
Right Angle
1/4Investigator / Opportunist
Right Angle
2/4Hermit / Opportunist
Right Angle
2/5Hermit / Heretic
Right Angle
3/5Martyr / Heretic
Right Angle
3/6Martyr / Role Model
Right Angle
4/6Opportunist / Role Model
Right Angle
4/1Opportunist / Investigator
Juxtaposition
5/1Heretic / Investigator
Left Angle
5/2Heretic / Hermit
Left Angle
6/2Role Model / Hermit
Left Angle
6/3Role Model / Martyr
Left Angle
×1/3Investigator / Martyr
Right Angle
1/4Investigator / Opportunist
Right Angle
2/4Hermit / Opportunist
Right Angle
2/5Hermit / Heretic
Right Angle
3/5Martyr / Heretic
Right Angle
3/6Martyr / Role Model
Right Angle
4/6Opportunist / Role Model
Right Angle
4/1Opportunist / Investigator
Juxtaposition
5/1Heretic / Investigator
Left Angle
5/2Heretic / Hermit
Left Angle
6/2Role Model / Hermit
Left Angle
6/3Role Model / Martyr
Left Angle

Same Angle · Ra: “like likes like”

Purpose in Relationship

The Sphere of Purpose

Notice both the low and high qualities of each dynamic enacted between you. Love is the Wisdom of allowing these dynamics to naturally soften, without identifying each other with them.

Partner one
1ShadowThe Loner
GiftThe Anchor
Main blockYou are driven by your need to feel secure
Repressive tendencyNot standing up for yourself
Reactive tendencyForcing your point of view
Highest potentialYour confidence makes others feel secure
Inner strengthStanding up for yourself in a firm but kind way
Outer strengthListening to the needs of others
Partner one
2ShadowThe Accuser
GiftThe Natural
Main blockYou are unaware of your effect on others
Repressive tendencyBurying your head in the sand
Reactive tendencyResponding with angry outbursts
Highest potentialYour easy-going nature allows everyone around you to relax
Inner strengthResponding to life spontaneously
Outer strengthBeing at peace with others
Partner one
3ShadowThe Escape Artist
GiftThe Adventurer
Main blockYou run away from making commitments in life
Repressive tendencyDiverting attention away from yourself
Reactive tendencyCreating emotional dramas
Highest potentialYour enthusiasm for life is contagious
Inner strengthLaughing at yourself
Outer strengthAccepting the feelings of others
Partner one
4ShadowThe Politician
GiftThe Nurturer
Main blockYou reject others before they can reject you
Repressive tendencyBeing emotionally numb
Reactive tendencyCutting others off in a cruel way
Highest potentialYour generous spirit enables others to accept themselves
Inner strengthBeing gentle with yourself
Outer strengthConnecting deeply with others
Partner one
5ShadowThe Victim
GiftThe Leader
Main blockYou create a web of illusions that keeps you trapped in your mind
Repressive tendencyBeing lost in self pity
Reactive tendencyMaking others feel like the victim
Highest potentialYour practical mind makes you a strong and natural leader
Inner strengthSeeing things clearly for yourself
Outer strengthUsing your clarity to help others
Partner one
6ShadowThe Judge
GiftThe Visionary
Main blockYou exclude yourself through your judgement of everything and everyone
Repressive tendencyBeing uninterested and aloof
Reactive tendencyDisempowering others through the intellect
Highest potentialYour trust in life helps others to trust themselves
Inner strengthIncluding yourself at every level of life
Outer strengthBeing a role model for others
Partner two
1ShadowThe Loner
GiftThe Anchor
Main blockYou are driven by your need to feel secure
Repressive tendencyNot standing up for yourself
Reactive tendencyForcing your point of view
Highest potentialYour confidence makes others feel secure
Inner strengthStanding up for yourself in a firm but kind way
Outer strengthListening to the needs of others
Partner two
2ShadowThe Accuser
GiftThe Natural
Main blockYou are unaware of your effect on others
Repressive tendencyBurying your head in the sand
Reactive tendencyResponding with angry outbursts
Highest potentialYour easy-going nature allows everyone around you to relax
Inner strengthResponding to life spontaneously
Outer strengthBeing at peace with others
Partner two
3ShadowThe Escape Artist
GiftThe Adventurer
Main blockYou run away from making commitments in life
Repressive tendencyDiverting attention away from yourself
Reactive tendencyCreating emotional dramas
Highest potentialYour enthusiasm for life is contagious
Inner strengthLaughing at yourself
Outer strengthAccepting the feelings of others
Partner two
4ShadowThe Politician
GiftThe Nurturer
Main blockYou reject others before they can reject you
Repressive tendencyBeing emotionally numb
Reactive tendencyCutting others off in a cruel way
Highest potentialYour generous spirit enables others to accept themselves
Inner strengthBeing gentle with yourself
Outer strengthConnecting deeply with others
Partner two
5ShadowThe Victim
GiftThe Leader
Main blockYou create a web of illusions that keeps you trapped in your mind
Repressive tendencyBeing lost in self pity
Reactive tendencyMaking others feel like the victim
Highest potentialYour practical mind makes you a strong and natural leader
Inner strengthSeeing things clearly for yourself
Outer strengthUsing your clarity to help others
Partner two
6ShadowThe Judge
GiftThe Visionary
Main blockYou exclude yourself through your judgement of everything and everyone
Repressive tendencyBeing uninterested and aloof
Reactive tendencyDisempowering others through the intellect
Highest potentialYour trust in life helps others to trust themselves
Inner strengthIncluding yourself at every level of life
Outer strengthBeing a role model for others
Partner one1/3Investigator / Martyr
Right Angle
1/4Investigator / Opportunist
Right Angle
2/4Hermit / Opportunist
Right Angle
2/5Hermit / Heretic
Right Angle
3/5Martyr / Heretic
Right Angle
3/6Martyr / Role Model
Right Angle
4/6Opportunist / Role Model
Right Angle
4/1Opportunist / Investigator
Juxtaposition
5/1Heretic / Investigator
Left Angle
5/2Heretic / Hermit
Left Angle
6/2Role Model / Hermit
Left Angle
6/3Role Model / Martyr
Left Angle
1IntrospectionIntrospective
Investigation
High frequency
Rock solid inner certainty
Low frequency
Afraid of own potential
Meet this line with
Full information and heartfelt directness
Venus Sequence
Fear
Allowing the feeling in would threaten our security
Emotional Wound
Repression
Wound Patterns
Hidden
Reasons we don’t heal
Cowardly
Teenage Keynotes
Secretive
Escape Strategies – How you fake it
Confrontation
Freeing your spirit
Self-discovery – find your wild spirit
Healing Paths
Be truthful
2ProjectionRelating, expressive
Being
High frequency
Expression of pure inner light
Low frequency
Unconsciously provocative
Meet this line with
High frequency with no agendas
Venus Sequence
Fear
The depth of our own feelings
Emotional Wound
Denial
Wound Patterns
Anger
Reasons we don’t heal
Aggressive
Teenage Keynotes
Blind
Escape Strategies – How you fake it
Superiority
Freeing your spirit
Relating – come out of your self-denial
Healing Paths
Relax and be natural
3AdaptationDiscovery, adaptive
Trial and Error
High frequency
Joyous, humble, wise
Low frequency
Unreliable, pessimistic, evasive
Meet this line with
Absolutely no pressure
Venus Sequence
Fear
Being found unworthy when seen
Emotional Wound
Shame
Wound Patterns
Commitment
Reasons we don’t heal
Self-destructive
Teenage Keynotes
Angst
Escape Strategies – How you fake it
Frivolity
Freeing your spirit
Impotence – see through your pattern
Healing Paths
Laugh
4ExternalisationConnecting, friendly
Conviction
High frequency
Honest, open, heartfelt
Low frequency
Fixed view, hides behind pretence
Meet this line with
Integrity, honesty, softness and romance
Venus Sequence
Fear
Being hurt by the other
Emotional Wound
Rejection
Wound Patterns
Emotional Wall
Reasons we don’t heal
Fake
Teenage Keynotes
Cruel/cool
Escape Strategies – How you fake it
Acquiescence
Freeing your spirit
Authenticity – take off your masks
Healing Paths
Be gentle
5UniversalisationLeading, practical
Organisation
High frequency
Leads through listening, simplifies
Low frequency
Self-deluded, tyrannical, hierarchical
Meet this line with
Simple, practical solutions
Venus Sequence
Fear
Not satisfying others’ high expectations from us
Emotional Wound
Guilt
Wound Patterns
Mental Labyrinth
Reasons we don’t heal
Self-pitying
Teenage Keynotes
Defensive
Escape Strategies – How you fake it
Reinforcement
Freeing your spirit
Disappointment – rescue yourself
Healing Paths
Forgive (yourself)
6TransitionOverseeing, Visionary
Objectivity
High frequency
Wise, accessible, and ahead of its time
Low frequency
Aloof, arrogant, inaccessible
Meet this line with
Patience
Venus Sequence
Fear
Our high ideals not belonging to this world
Emotional Wound
Isolation
Wound Patterns
Dissociation
Reasons we don’t heal
Isolated
Teenage Keynotes
Absent
Escape Strategies – How you fake it
Over-sincerity
Freeing your spirit
Isolation – include yourself
Healing Paths
Allow
1IntrospectionIntrospective
Investigation
High frequency
Rock solid inner certainty
Low frequency
Afraid of own potential
Meet this line with
Full information and heartfelt directness
Venus Sequence
Fear
Allowing the feeling in would threaten our security
Emotional Wound
Repression
Wound Patterns
Hidden
Reasons we don’t heal
Cowardly
Teenage Keynotes
Secretive
Escape Strategies – How you fake it
Confrontation
Freeing your spirit
Self-discovery – find your wild spirit
Healing Paths
Be truthful
2ProjectionRelating, expressive
Being
High frequency
Expression of pure inner light
Low frequency
Unconsciously provocative
Meet this line with
High frequency with no agendas
Venus Sequence
Fear
The depth of our own feelings
Emotional Wound
Denial
Wound Patterns
Anger
Reasons we don’t heal
Aggressive
Teenage Keynotes
Blind
Escape Strategies – How you fake it
Superiority
Freeing your spirit
Relating – come out of your self-denial
Healing Paths
Relax and be natural
3AdaptationDiscovery, adaptive
Trial and Error
High frequency
Joyous, humble, wise
Low frequency
Unreliable, pessimistic, evasive
Meet this line with
Absolutely no pressure
Venus Sequence
Fear
Being found unworthy when seen
Emotional Wound
Shame
Wound Patterns
Commitment
Reasons we don’t heal
Self-destructive
Teenage Keynotes
Angst
Escape Strategies – How you fake it
Frivolity
Freeing your spirit
Impotence – see through your pattern
Healing Paths
Laugh
4ExternalisationConnecting, friendly
Conviction
High frequency
Honest, open, heartfelt
Low frequency
Fixed view, hides behind pretence
Meet this line with
Integrity, honesty, softness and romance
Venus Sequence
Fear
Being hurt by the other
Emotional Wound
Rejection
Wound Patterns
Emotional Wall
Reasons we don’t heal
Fake
Teenage Keynotes
Cruel/cool
Escape Strategies – How you fake it
Acquiescence
Freeing your spirit
Authenticity – take off your masks
Healing Paths
Be gentle
5UniversalisationLeading, practical
Organisation
High frequency
Leads through listening, simplifies
Low frequency
Self-deluded, tyrannical, hierarchical
Meet this line with
Simple, practical solutions
Venus Sequence
Fear
Not satisfying others’ high expectations from us
Emotional Wound
Guilt
Wound Patterns
Mental Labyrinth
Reasons we don’t heal
Self-pitying
Teenage Keynotes
Defensive
Escape Strategies – How you fake it
Reinforcement
Freeing your spirit
Disappointment – rescue yourself
Healing Paths
Forgive (yourself)
6TransitionOverseeing, Visionary
Objectivity
High frequency
Wise, accessible, and ahead of its time
Low frequency
Aloof, arrogant, inaccessible
Meet this line with
Patience
Venus Sequence
Fear
Our high ideals not belonging to this world
Emotional Wound
Isolation
Wound Patterns
Dissociation
Reasons we don’t heal
Isolated
Teenage Keynotes
Absent
Escape Strategies – How you fake it
Over-sincerity
Freeing your spirit
Isolation – include yourself
Healing Paths
Allow
Partner two1/3Investigator / Martyr
Right Angle
1/4Investigator / Opportunist
Right Angle
2/4Hermit / Opportunist
Right Angle
2/5Hermit / Heretic
Right Angle
3/5Martyr / Heretic
Right Angle
3/6Martyr / Role Model
Right Angle
4/6Opportunist / Role Model
Right Angle
4/1Opportunist / Investigator
Juxtaposition
5/1Heretic / Investigator
Left Angle
5/2Heretic / Hermit
Left Angle
6/2Role Model / Hermit
Left Angle
6/3Role Model / Martyr
Left Angle
1IntrospectionIntrospective
Investigation
High frequency
Rock solid inner certainty
Low frequency
Afraid of own potential
Meet this line with
Full information and heartfelt directness
Venus Sequence
Fear
Allowing the feeling in would threaten our security
Emotional Wound
Repression
Wound Patterns
Hidden
Reasons we don’t heal
Cowardly
Teenage Keynotes
Secretive
Escape Strategies – How you fake it
Confrontation
Freeing your spirit
Self-discovery – find your wild spirit
Healing Paths
Be truthful
2ProjectionRelating, expressive
Being
High frequency
Expression of pure inner light
Low frequency
Unconsciously provocative
Meet this line with
High frequency with no agendas
Venus Sequence
Fear
The depth of our own feelings
Emotional Wound
Denial
Wound Patterns
Anger
Reasons we don’t heal
Aggressive
Teenage Keynotes
Blind
Escape Strategies – How you fake it
Superiority
Freeing your spirit
Relating – come out of your self-denial
Healing Paths
Relax and be natural
3AdaptationDiscovery, adaptive
Trial and Error
High frequency
Joyous, humble, wise
Low frequency
Unreliable, pessimistic, evasive
Meet this line with
Absolutely no pressure
Venus Sequence
Fear
Being found unworthy when seen
Emotional Wound
Shame
Wound Patterns
Commitment
Reasons we don’t heal
Self-destructive
Teenage Keynotes
Angst
Escape Strategies – How you fake it
Frivolity
Freeing your spirit
Impotence – see through your pattern
Healing Paths
Laugh
4ExternalisationConnecting, friendly
Conviction
High frequency
Honest, open, heartfelt
Low frequency
Fixed view, hides behind pretence
Meet this line with
Integrity, honesty, softness and romance
Venus Sequence
Fear
Being hurt by the other
Emotional Wound
Rejection
Wound Patterns
Emotional Wall
Reasons we don’t heal
Fake
Teenage Keynotes
Cruel/cool
Escape Strategies – How you fake it
Acquiescence
Freeing your spirit
Authenticity – take off your masks
Healing Paths
Be gentle
5UniversalisationLeading, practical
Organisation
High frequency
Leads through listening, simplifies
Low frequency
Self-deluded, tyrannical, hierarchical
Meet this line with
Simple, practical solutions
Venus Sequence
Fear
Not satisfying others’ high expectations from us
Emotional Wound
Guilt
Wound Patterns
Mental Labyrinth
Reasons we don’t heal
Self-pitying
Teenage Keynotes
Defensive
Escape Strategies – How you fake it
Reinforcement
Freeing your spirit
Disappointment – rescue yourself
Healing Paths
Forgive (yourself)
6TransitionOverseeing, Visionary
Objectivity
High frequency
Wise, accessible, and ahead of its time
Low frequency
Aloof, arrogant, inaccessible
Meet this line with
Patience
Venus Sequence
Fear
Our high ideals not belonging to this world
Emotional Wound
Isolation
Wound Patterns
Dissociation
Reasons we don’t heal
Isolated
Teenage Keynotes
Absent
Escape Strategies – How you fake it
Over-sincerity
Freeing your spirit
Isolation – include yourself
Healing Paths
Allow
1IntrospectionIntrospective
Investigation
High frequency
Rock solid inner certainty
Low frequency
Afraid of own potential
Meet this line with
Full information and heartfelt directness
Venus Sequence
Fear
Allowing the feeling in would threaten our security
Emotional Wound
Repression
Wound Patterns
Hidden
Reasons we don’t heal
Cowardly
Teenage Keynotes
Secretive
Escape Strategies – How you fake it
Confrontation
Freeing your spirit
Self-discovery – find your wild spirit
Healing Paths
Be truthful
2ProjectionRelating, expressive
Being
High frequency
Expression of pure inner light
Low frequency
Unconsciously provocative
Meet this line with
High frequency with no agendas
Venus Sequence
Fear
The depth of our own feelings
Emotional Wound
Denial
Wound Patterns
Anger
Reasons we don’t heal
Aggressive
Teenage Keynotes
Blind
Escape Strategies – How you fake it
Superiority
Freeing your spirit
Relating – come out of your self-denial
Healing Paths
Relax and be natural
3AdaptationDiscovery, adaptive
Trial and Error
High frequency
Joyous, humble, wise
Low frequency
Unreliable, pessimistic, evasive
Meet this line with
Absolutely no pressure
Venus Sequence
Fear
Being found unworthy when seen
Emotional Wound
Shame
Wound Patterns
Commitment
Reasons we don’t heal
Self-destructive
Teenage Keynotes
Angst
Escape Strategies – How you fake it
Frivolity
Freeing your spirit
Impotence – see through your pattern
Healing Paths
Laugh
4ExternalisationConnecting, friendly
Conviction
High frequency
Honest, open, heartfelt
Low frequency
Fixed view, hides behind pretence
Meet this line with
Integrity, honesty, softness and romance
Venus Sequence
Fear
Being hurt by the other
Emotional Wound
Rejection
Wound Patterns
Emotional Wall
Reasons we don’t heal
Fake
Teenage Keynotes
Cruel/cool
Escape Strategies – How you fake it
Acquiescence
Freeing your spirit
Authenticity – take off your masks
Healing Paths
Be gentle
5UniversalisationLeading, practical
Organisation
High frequency
Leads through listening, simplifies
Low frequency
Self-deluded, tyrannical, hierarchical
Meet this line with
Simple, practical solutions
Venus Sequence
Fear
Not satisfying others’ high expectations from us
Emotional Wound
Guilt
Wound Patterns
Mental Labyrinth
Reasons we don’t heal
Self-pitying
Teenage Keynotes
Defensive
Escape Strategies – How you fake it
Reinforcement
Freeing your spirit
Disappointment – rescue yourself
Healing Paths
Forgive (yourself)
6TransitionOverseeing, Visionary
Objectivity
High frequency
Wise, accessible, and ahead of its time
Low frequency
Aloof, arrogant, inaccessible
Meet this line with
Patience
Venus Sequence
Fear
Our high ideals not belonging to this world
Emotional Wound
Isolation
Wound Patterns
Dissociation
Reasons we don’t heal
Isolated
Teenage Keynotes
Absent
Escape Strategies – How you fake it
Over-sincerity
Freeing your spirit
Isolation – include yourself
Healing Paths
Allow
Tragedy & Comedy

Two Loners

Tragedy

When both Loners will not stand up for themselves, the curtain rises on an old play.

Then both force their points of view, two secretive teenagers on the stage again.

In both Because the fear of allowing the feeling in would threaten its security, the wound of repression is locked in place.

So both need to feel secure; both stay cowardly, and neither one heals.

Comedy

Each Loner, still swallowing its truth, expects the other to arrive as the Anchor, with a confidence that makes others feel secure; so, of course, in walks the other Loner instead, not standing up for itself, then forcing its point of view, and faking it all with confrontation.

A perfect mirror, and neither one recognises the face; each is offended by exactly what it does itself.

Highest Potential

When we commit to witness and honor the Divine in each other, the true prize of the enjoyment of Sacred Union, the highest love of merger with all that is, awaits us.

Through deepening in trust & love together, both Loners begin to be able to embrace their fear of allowing the feeling in, and Exhaustion turns into Divine Will: the First Seal opens, the Physical body blossoms in both, and through Earth we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

The Loner & The Accuser

Tragedy

When the Loner will not stand up for itself and the Accuser buries its head in the sand, the curtain rises on an old play.

Then the Loner forces its point of view and the Accuser responds with an angry outburst, two teenagers on the stage again, one secretive, one blind.

The Loner Because the fear of allowing the feeling in would threaten its security, the wound of repression is locked in place.

The Accuser Because of the fear of the depth of its own feelings, the blindspot of denial and projection is locked in place.

So the Loner needs to feel secure and the Accuser is unaware of its effect on others; one stays cowardly, the other aggressive, and neither one heals.

Comedy

The Loner, still swallowing its truth, expects the Accuser to arrive as the Natural, with an easy-going nature that lets everyone relax; so, of course, in walks the Accuser instead, burying its head in the sand, then erupting in an angry outburst, and faking it all with superiority.

The Accuser, head still in the sand, expects the Loner to arrive as the Anchor, with a confidence that makes others feel secure; so, of course, in walks the Loner instead, not standing up for itself, then forcing its point of view, and faking it all with confrontation.

Each demands the other’s gift while performing its own shadow, and both are offended by the result.

Highest Potential

When we commit to witness and honor the Divine in each other, the true prize of the enjoyment of Sacred Union, the highest love of merger with all that is, awaits us.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Loner begins to be able to embrace its fear of allowing the feeling in, and Exhaustion turns into Divine Will: the First Seal opens, the Physical body blossoms, and through Earth we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Accuser begins to be able to embrace its fear of the depth of its own feelings, and Opinion turns into Omniscience: the Second Seal opens, the Astral body blossoms, and through Water we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

The Loner & The Escape Artist

Tragedy

When the Loner will not stand up for itself and the Escape Artist diverts attention away from itself, the curtain rises on an old play.

Then the Loner forces its point of view and the Escape Artist creates an emotional drama, two teenagers on the stage again, one secretive, one in angst.

The Loner Because the fear of allowing the feeling in would threaten its security, the wound of repression is locked in place.

The Escape Artist Because of the fear of being found unworthy when seen, the wound of commitment is locked in place.

So the Loner needs to feel secure and the Escape Artist runs from commitment; one stays cowardly, the other self-destructive, and neither one heals.

Comedy

The Loner, still swallowing its truth, expects the Escape Artist to arrive as the Adventurer, with an enthusiasm for life that is contagious; so, of course, in walks the Escape Artist instead, diverting attention away from itself, then creating an emotional drama, and faking it all with frivolity.

The Escape Artist, still changing the subject, expects the Loner to arrive as the Anchor, with a confidence that makes others feel secure; so, of course, in walks the Loner instead, not standing up for itself, then forcing its point of view, and faking it all with confrontation.

Each demands the other’s gift while performing its own shadow, and both are offended by the result.

Highest Potential

When we commit to witness and honor the Divine in each other, the true prize of the enjoyment of Sacred Union, the highest love of merger with all that is, awaits us.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Loner begins to be able to embrace its fear of allowing the feeling in, and Exhaustion turns into Divine Will: the First Seal opens, the Physical body blossoms, and through Earth we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Escape Artist begins to be able to embrace its fear of being found unworthy when seen, and Constriction turns into Universal Love: the Third Seal opens, the Mental body blossoms, and through Fire we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

The Loner & The Politician

Tragedy

When the Loner will not stand up for itself and the Politician goes emotionally numb, the curtain rises on an old play.

Then the Loner forces its point of view and the Politician cruelly cuts the other off, two teenagers on the stage again, one secretive, one cruel and cool.

The Loner Because the fear of allowing the feeling in would threaten its security, the wound of repression is locked in place.

The Politician Because of the fear of being hurt by the other, the wound of ‘I reject you first’ is locked in place.

So the Loner needs to feel secure and the Politician rejects before it can be rejected; one stays cowardly, the other fake, and neither one heals.

Comedy

The Loner, still swallowing its truth, expects the Politician to arrive as the Nurturer, with a generous spirit that lets others accept themselves; so, of course, in walks the Politician instead, going emotionally numb, then cruelly cutting the other off, and faking it all with acquiescence.

The Politician, still numb, expects the Loner to arrive as the Anchor, with a confidence that makes others feel secure; so, of course, in walks the Loner instead, not standing up for itself, then forcing its point of view, and faking it all with confrontation.

Each demands the other’s gift while performing its own shadow, and both are offended by the result.

Highest Potential

When we commit to witness and honor the Divine in each other, the true prize of the enjoyment of Sacred Union, the highest love of merger with all that is, awaits us.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Loner begins to be able to embrace its fear of allowing the feeling in, and Exhaustion turns into Divine Will: the First Seal opens, the Physical body blossoms, and through Earth we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Politician begins to be able to embrace its fear of being hurt by the other, and Deafness turns into Epiphany: the Fourth Seal opens, the Causal body blossoms, and through Air we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

The Loner & The Victim

Tragedy

When the Loner will not stand up for itself and the Victim is lost in self-pity, the curtain rises on an old play.

Then the Loner forces its point of view and the Victim makes the other feel like the victim, two teenagers on the stage again, one secretive, one defensive.

The Loner Because the fear of allowing the feeling in would threaten its security, the wound of repression is locked in place.

The Victim Because of the fear of not satisfying others’ high expectations from us, the wound of maintaining the story of defensive paranoid guilting is locked in place.

So the Loner needs to feel secure and the Victim is trapped in the web of its own mind; one stays cowardly, the other self-pitying, and neither one heals.

Comedy

The Loner, still swallowing its truth, expects the Victim to arrive as the Leader, with a practical mind that leads; so, of course, in walks the Victim instead, sinking into self-pity, then making the other feel like the victim, and faking it all with reinforcement.

The Victim, still lost in self-pity, expects the Loner to arrive as the Anchor, with a confidence that makes others feel secure; so, of course, in walks the Loner instead, not standing up for itself, then forcing its point of view, and faking it all with confrontation.

Each demands the other’s gift while performing its own shadow, and both are offended by the result.

Highest Potential

When we commit to witness and honor the Divine in each other, the true prize of the enjoyment of Sacred Union, the highest love of merger with all that is, awaits us.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Loner begins to be able to embrace its fear of allowing the feeling in, and Exhaustion turns into Divine Will: the First Seal opens, the Physical body blossoms, and through Earth we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Victim begins to be able to embrace its fear of not satisfying others’ high expectations, and Intolerance turns into Forgiveness: the Fifth Seal opens, the Buddhic body blossoms, and through Ether we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

The Loner & The Judge

Tragedy

When the Loner will not stand up for itself and the Judge turns uninterested and aloof, the curtain rises on an old play.

Then the Loner forces its point of view and the Judge disempowers the other through the intellect, two teenagers on the stage again, one secretive, one absent.

The Loner Because the fear of allowing the feeling in would threaten its security, the wound of repression is locked in place.

The Judge Because of the fear of our high ideals not belonging to this world, the wound of dissociation is locked in place.

So the Loner needs to feel secure and the Judge excludes itself by judging everything and everyone; one stays cowardly, the other isolated, and neither one heals.

Comedy

The Loner, still swallowing its truth, expects the Judge to arrive as the Visionary, with a trust in life that helps others trust themselves; so, of course, in walks the Judge instead, turning uninterested and aloof, then disempowering the other through the intellect, and faking it all with over-sincerity.

The Judge, still aloof, expects the Loner to arrive as the Anchor, with a confidence that makes others feel secure; so, of course, in walks the Loner instead, not standing up for itself, then forcing its point of view, and faking it all with confrontation.

Each demands the other’s gift while performing its own shadow, and both are offended by the result.

Highest Potential

When we commit to witness and honor the Divine in each other, the true prize of the enjoyment of Sacred Union, the highest love of merger with all that is, awaits us.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Loner begins to be able to embrace its fear of allowing the feeling in, and Exhaustion turns into Divine Will: the First Seal opens, the Physical body blossoms, and through Earth we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Judge begins to be able to embrace its fear of its high ideals not belonging to this world, and Doubt turns into Truth: the Sixth Seal opens, the Atmic body blossoms, and through the Earth of the next realm we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

Two Accusers

Tragedy

When both Accusers bury their heads in the sand, the curtain rises on an old play.

Then both respond with angry outbursts, two blind teenagers on the stage again.

In both Because of the fear of the depth of its own feelings, the blindspot of denial and projection is locked in place.

So both are unaware of their effect on others; both stay aggressive, and neither one heals.

Comedy

Each Accuser, head still in the sand, expects the other to arrive as the Natural, with an easy-going nature that lets everyone relax; so, of course, in walks the other Accuser instead, burying its head in the sand, then erupting in an angry outburst, and faking it all with superiority.

A perfect mirror, and neither one recognises the face; each is offended by exactly what it does itself.

Highest Potential

When we commit to witness and honor the Divine in each other, the true prize of the enjoyment of Sacred Union, the highest love of merger with all that is, awaits us.

Through deepening in trust & love together, both Accusers begin to be able to embrace their fear of the depth of their own feelings, and Opinion turns into Omniscience: the Second Seal opens, the Astral body blossoms in both, and through Water we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

The Accuser & The Escape Artist

Tragedy

When the Accuser buries its head in the sand and the Escape Artist diverts attention away from itself, the curtain rises on an old play.

Then the Accuser responds with an angry outburst and the Escape Artist creates an emotional drama, two teenagers on the stage again, one blind, one in angst.

The Accuser Because of the fear of the depth of its own feelings, the blindspot of denial and projection is locked in place.

The Escape Artist Because of the fear of being found unworthy when seen, the wound of commitment is locked in place.

So the Accuser is unaware of its effect on others and the Escape Artist runs from commitment; one stays aggressive, the other self-destructive, and neither one heals.

Comedy

The Accuser, head still in the sand, expects the Escape Artist to arrive as the Adventurer, with an enthusiasm for life that is contagious; so, of course, in walks the Escape Artist instead, diverting attention away from itself, then creating an emotional drama, and faking it all with frivolity.

The Escape Artist, still changing the subject, expects the Accuser to arrive as the Natural, with an easy-going nature that lets everyone relax; so, of course, in walks the Accuser instead, burying its head in the sand, then erupting in an angry outburst, and faking it all with superiority.

Each demands the other’s gift while performing its own shadow, and both are offended by the result.

Highest Potential

When we commit to witness and honor the Divine in each other, the true prize of the enjoyment of Sacred Union, the highest love of merger with all that is, awaits us.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Accuser begins to be able to embrace its fear of the depth of its own feelings, and Opinion turns into Omniscience: the Second Seal opens, the Astral body blossoms, and through Water we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Escape Artist begins to be able to embrace its fear of being found unworthy when seen, and Constriction turns into Universal Love: the Third Seal opens, the Mental body blossoms, and through Fire we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

The Accuser & The Politician

Tragedy

When the Accuser buries its head in the sand and the Politician goes emotionally numb, the curtain rises on an old play.

Then the Accuser responds with an angry outburst and the Politician cruelly cuts the other off, two teenagers on the stage again, one blind, one cruel and cool.

The Accuser Because of the fear of the depth of its own feelings, the blindspot of denial and projection is locked in place.

The Politician Because of the fear of being hurt by the other, the wound of ‘I reject you first’ is locked in place.

So the Accuser is unaware of its effect on others and the Politician rejects before it can be rejected; one stays aggressive, the other fake, and neither one heals.

Comedy

The Accuser, head still in the sand, expects the Politician to arrive as the Nurturer, with a generous spirit that lets others accept themselves; so, of course, in walks the Politician instead, going emotionally numb, then cruelly cutting the other off, and faking it all with acquiescence.

The Politician, still numb, expects the Accuser to arrive as the Natural, with an easy-going nature that lets everyone relax; so, of course, in walks the Accuser instead, burying its head in the sand, then erupting in an angry outburst, and faking it all with superiority.

Each demands the other’s gift while performing its own shadow, and both are offended by the result.

Highest Potential

When we commit to witness and honor the Divine in each other, the true prize of the enjoyment of Sacred Union, the highest love of merger with all that is, awaits us.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Accuser begins to be able to embrace its fear of the depth of its own feelings, and Opinion turns into Omniscience: the Second Seal opens, the Astral body blossoms, and through Water we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Politician begins to be able to embrace its fear of being hurt by the other, and Deafness turns into Epiphany: the Fourth Seal opens, the Causal body blossoms, and through Air we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

The Accuser & The Victim

Tragedy

When the Accuser buries its head in the sand and the Victim is lost in self-pity, the curtain rises on an old play.

Then the Accuser responds with an angry outburst and the Victim makes the other feel like the victim, two teenagers on the stage again, one blind, one defensive.

The Accuser Because of the fear of the depth of its own feelings, the blindspot of denial and projection is locked in place.

The Victim Because of the fear of not satisfying others’ high expectations from us, the wound of maintaining the story of defensive paranoid guilting is locked in place.

So the Accuser is unaware of its effect on others and the Victim is trapped in the web of its own mind; one stays aggressive, the other self-pitying, and neither one heals.

Comedy

The Accuser, head still in the sand, expects the Victim to arrive as the Leader, with a practical mind that leads; so, of course, in walks the Victim instead, sinking into self-pity, then making the other feel like the victim, and faking it all with reinforcement.

The Victim, still lost in self-pity, expects the Accuser to arrive as the Natural, with an easy-going nature that lets everyone relax; so, of course, in walks the Accuser instead, burying its head in the sand, then erupting in an angry outburst, and faking it all with superiority.

Each demands the other’s gift while performing its own shadow, and both are offended by the result.

Highest Potential

When we commit to witness and honor the Divine in each other, the true prize of the enjoyment of Sacred Union, the highest love of merger with all that is, awaits us.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Accuser begins to be able to embrace its fear of the depth of its own feelings, and Opinion turns into Omniscience: the Second Seal opens, the Astral body blossoms, and through Water we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Victim begins to be able to embrace its fear of not satisfying others’ high expectations, and Intolerance turns into Forgiveness: the Fifth Seal opens, the Buddhic body blossoms, and through Ether we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

The Accuser & The Judge

Tragedy

When the Accuser buries its head in the sand and the Judge turns uninterested and aloof, the curtain rises on an old play.

Then the Accuser responds with an angry outburst and the Judge disempowers the other through the intellect, two teenagers on the stage again, one blind, one absent.

The Accuser Because of the fear of the depth of its own feelings, the blindspot of denial and projection is locked in place.

The Judge Because of the fear of our high ideals not belonging to this world, the wound of dissociation is locked in place.

So the Accuser is unaware of its effect on others and the Judge excludes itself by judging everything and everyone; one stays aggressive, the other isolated, and neither one heals.

Comedy

The Accuser, head still in the sand, expects the Judge to arrive as the Visionary, with a trust in life that helps others trust themselves; so, of course, in walks the Judge instead, turning uninterested and aloof, then disempowering the other through the intellect, and faking it all with over-sincerity.

The Judge, still aloof, expects the Accuser to arrive as the Natural, with an easy-going nature that lets everyone relax; so, of course, in walks the Accuser instead, burying its head in the sand, then erupting in an angry outburst, and faking it all with superiority.

Each demands the other’s gift while performing its own shadow, and both are offended by the result.

Highest Potential

When we commit to witness and honor the Divine in each other, the true prize of the enjoyment of Sacred Union, the highest love of merger with all that is, awaits us.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Accuser begins to be able to embrace its fear of the depth of its own feelings, and Opinion turns into Omniscience: the Second Seal opens, the Astral body blossoms, and through Water we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Judge begins to be able to embrace its fear of its high ideals not belonging to this world, and Doubt turns into Truth: the Sixth Seal opens, the Atmic body blossoms, and through the Earth of the next realm we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

Two Escape Artists

Tragedy

When both Escape Artists divert attention away from themselves, the curtain rises on an old play.

Then both create emotional dramas, two teenagers in angst on the stage again.

In both Because of the fear of being found unworthy when seen, the wound of commitment is locked in place.

So both run from commitment; both stay self-destructive, and neither one heals.

Comedy

Each Escape Artist, still changing the subject, expects the other to arrive as the Adventurer, with an enthusiasm for life that is contagious; so, of course, in walks the other Escape Artist instead, diverting attention away from itself, then creating an emotional drama, and faking it all with frivolity.

A perfect mirror, and neither one recognises the face; each is offended by exactly what it does itself.

Highest Potential

When we commit to witness and honor the Divine in each other, the true prize of the enjoyment of Sacred Union, the highest love of merger with all that is, awaits us.

Through deepening in trust & love together, both Escape Artists begin to be able to embrace their fear of being found unworthy when seen, and Constriction turns into Universal Love: the Third Seal opens, the Mental body blossoms in both, and through Fire we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

The Escape Artist & The Politician

Tragedy

When the Escape Artist diverts attention away from itself and the Politician goes emotionally numb, the curtain rises on an old play.

Then the Escape Artist creates an emotional drama and the Politician cruelly cuts the other off, two teenagers on the stage again, one in angst, one cruel and cool.

The Escape Artist Because of the fear of being found unworthy when seen, the wound of commitment is locked in place.

The Politician Because of the fear of being hurt by the other, the wound of ‘I reject you first’ is locked in place.

So the Escape Artist runs from commitment and the Politician rejects before it can be rejected; one stays self-destructive, the other fake, and neither one heals.

Comedy

The Escape Artist, still changing the subject, expects the Politician to arrive as the Nurturer, with a generous spirit that lets others accept themselves; so, of course, in walks the Politician instead, going emotionally numb, then cruelly cutting the other off, and faking it all with acquiescence.

The Politician, still numb, expects the Escape Artist to arrive as the Adventurer, with an enthusiasm for life that is contagious; so, of course, in walks the Escape Artist instead, diverting attention away from itself, then creating an emotional drama, and faking it all with frivolity.

Each demands the other’s gift while performing its own shadow, and both are offended by the result.

Highest Potential

When we commit to witness and honor the Divine in each other, the true prize of the enjoyment of Sacred Union, the highest love of merger with all that is, awaits us.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Escape Artist begins to be able to embrace its fear of being found unworthy when seen, and Constriction turns into Universal Love: the Third Seal opens, the Mental body blossoms, and through Fire we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Politician begins to be able to embrace its fear of being hurt by the other, and Deafness turns into Epiphany: the Fourth Seal opens, the Causal body blossoms, and through Air we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

The Escape Artist & The Victim

Tragedy

When the Escape Artist diverts attention away from itself and the Victim is lost in self-pity, the curtain rises on an old play.

Then the Escape Artist creates an emotional drama and the Victim makes the other feel like the victim, two teenagers on the stage again, one in angst, one defensive.

The Escape Artist Because of the fear of being found unworthy when seen, the wound of commitment is locked in place.

The Victim Because of the fear of not satisfying others’ high expectations from us, the wound of maintaining the story of defensive paranoid guilting is locked in place.

So the Escape Artist runs from commitment and the Victim is trapped in the web of its own mind; one stays self-destructive, the other self-pitying, and neither one heals.

Comedy

The Escape Artist, still changing the subject, expects the Victim to arrive as the Leader, with a practical mind that leads; so, of course, in walks the Victim instead, sinking into self-pity, then making the other feel like the victim, and faking it all with reinforcement.

The Victim, still lost in self-pity, expects the Escape Artist to arrive as the Adventurer, with an enthusiasm for life that is contagious; so, of course, in walks the Escape Artist instead, diverting attention away from itself, then creating an emotional drama, and faking it all with frivolity.

Each demands the other’s gift while performing its own shadow, and both are offended by the result.

Highest Potential

When we commit to witness and honor the Divine in each other, the true prize of the enjoyment of Sacred Union, the highest love of merger with all that is, awaits us.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Escape Artist begins to be able to embrace its fear of being found unworthy when seen, and Constriction turns into Universal Love: the Third Seal opens, the Mental body blossoms, and through Fire we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Victim begins to be able to embrace its fear of not satisfying others’ high expectations, and Intolerance turns into Forgiveness: the Fifth Seal opens, the Buddhic body blossoms, and through Ether we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

The Escape Artist & The Judge

Tragedy

When the Escape Artist diverts attention away from itself and the Judge turns uninterested and aloof, the curtain rises on an old play.

Then the Escape Artist creates an emotional drama and the Judge disempowers the other through the intellect, two teenagers on the stage again, one in angst, one absent.

The Escape Artist Because of the fear of being found unworthy when seen, the wound of commitment is locked in place.

The Judge Because of the fear of our high ideals not belonging to this world, the wound of dissociation is locked in place.

So the Escape Artist runs from commitment and the Judge excludes itself by judging everything and everyone; one stays self-destructive, the other isolated, and neither one heals.

Comedy

The Escape Artist, still changing the subject, expects the Judge to arrive as the Visionary, with a trust in life that helps others trust themselves; so, of course, in walks the Judge instead, turning uninterested and aloof, then disempowering the other through the intellect, and faking it all with over-sincerity.

The Judge, still aloof, expects the Escape Artist to arrive as the Adventurer, with an enthusiasm for life that is contagious; so, of course, in walks the Escape Artist instead, diverting attention away from itself, then creating an emotional drama, and faking it all with frivolity.

Each demands the other’s gift while performing its own shadow, and both are offended by the result.

Highest Potential

When we commit to witness and honor the Divine in each other, the true prize of the enjoyment of Sacred Union, the highest love of merger with all that is, awaits us.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Escape Artist begins to be able to embrace its fear of being found unworthy when seen, and Constriction turns into Universal Love: the Third Seal opens, the Mental body blossoms, and through Fire we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Judge begins to be able to embrace its fear of its high ideals not belonging to this world, and Doubt turns into Truth: the Sixth Seal opens, the Atmic body blossoms, and through the Earth of the next realm we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

Two Politicians

Tragedy

When both Politicians go emotionally numb, the curtain rises on an old play.

Then both cruelly cut each other off, two cruel, cool teenagers on the stage again.

In both Because of the fear of being hurt by the other, the wound of ‘I reject you first’ is locked in place.

So both reject before they can be rejected; both stay fake, and neither one heals.

Comedy

Each Politician, still numb, expects the other to arrive as the Nurturer, with a generous spirit that lets others accept themselves; so, of course, in walks the other Politician instead, going emotionally numb, then cruelly cutting the other off, and faking it all with acquiescence.

A perfect mirror, and neither one recognises the face; each is offended by exactly what it does itself.

Highest Potential

When we commit to witness and honor the Divine in each other, the true prize of the enjoyment of Sacred Union, the highest love of merger with all that is, awaits us.

Through deepening in trust & love together, both Politicians begin to be able to embrace their fear of being hurt by the other, and Deafness turns into Epiphany: the Fourth Seal opens, the Causal body blossoms in both, and through Air we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

The Politician & The Victim

Tragedy

When the Politician goes emotionally numb and the Victim is lost in self-pity, the curtain rises on an old play.

Then the Politician cruelly cuts the other off and the Victim makes the other feel like the victim, two teenagers on the stage again, one cruel and cool, one defensive.

The Politician Because of the fear of being hurt by the other, the wound of ‘I reject you first’ is locked in place.

The Victim Because of the fear of not satisfying others’ high expectations from us, the wound of maintaining the story of defensive paranoid guilting is locked in place.

So the Politician rejects before it can be rejected and the Victim is trapped in the web of its own mind; one stays fake, the other self-pitying, and neither one heals.

Comedy

The Politician, still numb, expects the Victim to arrive as the Leader, with a practical mind that leads; so, of course, in walks the Victim instead, sinking into self-pity, then making the other feel like the victim, and faking it all with reinforcement.

The Victim, still lost in self-pity, expects the Politician to arrive as the Nurturer, with a generous spirit that lets others accept themselves; so, of course, in walks the Politician instead, going emotionally numb, then cruelly cutting the other off, and faking it all with acquiescence.

Each demands the other’s gift while performing its own shadow, and both are offended by the result.

Highest Potential

When we commit to witness and honor the Divine in each other, the true prize of the enjoyment of Sacred Union, the highest love of merger with all that is, awaits us.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Politician begins to be able to embrace its fear of being hurt by the other, and Deafness turns into Epiphany: the Fourth Seal opens, the Causal body blossoms, and through Air we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Victim begins to be able to embrace its fear of not satisfying others’ high expectations, and Intolerance turns into Forgiveness: the Fifth Seal opens, the Buddhic body blossoms, and through Ether we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

The Politician & The Judge

Tragedy

When the Politician goes emotionally numb and the Judge turns uninterested and aloof, the curtain rises on an old play.

Then the Politician cruelly cuts the other off and the Judge disempowers the other through the intellect, two teenagers on the stage again, one cruel and cool, one absent.

The Politician Because of the fear of being hurt by the other, the wound of ‘I reject you first’ is locked in place.

The Judge Because of the fear of our high ideals not belonging to this world, the wound of dissociation is locked in place.

So the Politician rejects before it can be rejected and the Judge excludes itself by judging everything and everyone; one stays fake, the other isolated, and neither one heals.

Comedy

The Politician, still numb, expects the Judge to arrive as the Visionary, with a trust in life that helps others trust themselves; so, of course, in walks the Judge instead, turning uninterested and aloof, then disempowering the other through the intellect, and faking it all with over-sincerity.

The Judge, still aloof, expects the Politician to arrive as the Nurturer, with a generous spirit that lets others accept themselves; so, of course, in walks the Politician instead, going emotionally numb, then cruelly cutting the other off, and faking it all with acquiescence.

Each demands the other’s gift while performing its own shadow, and both are offended by the result.

Highest Potential

When we commit to witness and honor the Divine in each other, the true prize of the enjoyment of Sacred Union, the highest love of merger with all that is, awaits us.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Politician begins to be able to embrace its fear of being hurt by the other, and Deafness turns into Epiphany: the Fourth Seal opens, the Causal body blossoms, and through Air we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Judge begins to be able to embrace its fear of its high ideals not belonging to this world, and Doubt turns into Truth: the Sixth Seal opens, the Atmic body blossoms, and through the Earth of the next realm we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

Two Victims

Tragedy

When both Victims are lost in self-pity, the curtain rises on an old play.

Then both make each other feel like the victim, two defensive teenagers on the stage again.

In both Because of the fear of not satisfying others’ high expectations from us, the wound of maintaining the story of defensive paranoid guilting is locked in place.

So both are trapped in the webs of their own minds; both stay self-pitying, and neither one heals.

Comedy

Each Victim, still lost in self-pity, expects the other to arrive as the Leader, with a practical mind that leads; so, of course, in walks the other Victim instead, sinking into self-pity, then making the other feel like the victim, and faking it all with reinforcement.

A perfect mirror, and neither one recognises the face; each is offended by exactly what it does itself.

Highest Potential

When we commit to witness and honor the Divine in each other, the true prize of the enjoyment of Sacred Union, the highest love of merger with all that is, awaits us.

Through deepening in trust & love together, both Victims begin to be able to embrace their fear of not satisfying others’ high expectations, and Intolerance turns into Forgiveness: the Fifth Seal opens, the Buddhic body blossoms in both, and through Ether we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

The Victim & The Judge

Tragedy

When the Victim is lost in self-pity and the Judge turns uninterested and aloof, the curtain rises on an old play.

Then the Victim makes the other feel like the victim and the Judge disempowers the other through the intellect, two teenagers on the stage again, one defensive, one absent.

The Victim Because of the fear of not satisfying others’ high expectations from us, the wound of maintaining the story of defensive paranoid guilting is locked in place.

The Judge Because of the fear of our high ideals not belonging to this world, the wound of dissociation is locked in place.

So the Victim is trapped in the web of its own mind and the Judge excludes itself by judging everything and everyone; one stays self-pitying, the other isolated, and neither one heals.

Comedy

The Victim, still lost in self-pity, expects the Judge to arrive as the Visionary, with a trust in life that helps others trust themselves; so, of course, in walks the Judge instead, turning uninterested and aloof, then disempowering the other through the intellect, and faking it all with over-sincerity.

The Judge, still aloof, expects the Victim to arrive as the Leader, with a practical mind that leads; so, of course, in walks the Victim instead, sinking into self-pity, then making the other feel like the victim, and faking it all with reinforcement.

Each demands the other’s gift while performing its own shadow, and both are offended by the result.

Highest Potential

When we commit to witness and honor the Divine in each other, the true prize of the enjoyment of Sacred Union, the highest love of merger with all that is, awaits us.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Victim begins to be able to embrace its fear of not satisfying others’ high expectations, and Intolerance turns into Forgiveness: the Fifth Seal opens, the Buddhic body blossoms, and through Ether we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

Through deepening in trust & love together, the Judge begins to be able to embrace its fear of its high ideals not belonging to this world, and Doubt turns into Truth: the Sixth Seal opens, the Atmic body blossoms, and through the Earth of the next realm we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

Two Judges

Tragedy

When both Judges turn uninterested and aloof, the curtain rises on an old play.

Then both disempower each other through the intellect, two absent teenagers on the stage again.

In both Because of the fear of our high ideals not belonging to this world, the wound of dissociation is locked in place.

So both exclude themselves by judging everything and everyone; both stay isolated, and neither one heals.

Comedy

Each Judge, still aloof, expects the other to arrive as the Visionary, with a trust in life that helps others trust themselves; so, of course, in walks the other Judge instead, turning uninterested and aloof, then disempowering the other through the intellect, and faking it all with over-sincerity.

A perfect mirror, and neither one recognises the face; each is offended by exactly what it does itself.

Highest Potential

When we commit to witness and honor the Divine in each other, the true prize of the enjoyment of Sacred Union, the highest love of merger with all that is, awaits us.

Through deepening in trust & love together, both Judges begin to be able to embrace their fear of their high ideals not belonging to this world, and Doubt turns into Truth: the Sixth Seal opens, the Atmic body blossoms in both, and through the Earth of the next realm we merge into wholeness AS the cosmic body of life.

Keynote sources: Richard Rudd, Love: A Guide to Your Venus Sequence, The Gene Keys Golden Path (Gene Keys Publishing, 2018), The Sphere of Purpose. Richard Rudd, Gene Keys Line Keynotes, General and Per Program (Gene Keys, 2009): Human Design keynotes, Prime Gift keynotes (Quality, High and Low frequency, Responds to) and Venus Sequence keynotes. Human Design line keynotes after Ra Uru Hu.

Are we both ready for this?

Can we commit to seeing the supreme Self in both of us? This commitment has to be established clearly in the beginning, that the main goals of the relationship are mutual cherishment, respect, safety, honoring transparent integrity and maturing together into ever greater delight and Awakening. This creates a sacred container and establishes trust in both of you. There is a whole art to creating this.

An ideal relationship is where both of you are looking and aiming in the same direction of the Self and drinking from your own source and sharing that bliss. Instead of the vanity and control drama of looking at each other, and trying to drink from each other and expecting the bliss and support from the other. At worst shaming and blaming each other when they cannot provide our expectations.

There are natural cycles of leaning on each other for a while, being held and receiving a loving nourishment into standing up again into our own roots and source. The ideal relationship is founded on this honoring aim of standing strong and nourishing each other as ancient trees in both our own rootedness below and in the sunshine above, which all our leaves are drinking. Then you can experience the unity of Spirit, Sacred Union.

Seeing the Perfection of your connection

Understanding, acceptance and loving compassion towards the unique motivations, needs, shadows and higher consciousness of both your own and your beloved’s is the bedrock of a loving relationship. Now we can empower you with the deepest wisdom of the many layers of what makes your relationship harmonious. With guidance, you will cultivate deeper presence and tender awareness of each other in all dimensions. This embodiment will enable you to experience ever deeper divine ecstasies together.

When you understand how your unique centers operate, what sensations are amplified by you and your beloved, and how you truly perceive each other subconsciously, it changes everything. With guidance, both of you can WAKE UP TO what is actually happening between you every day on the deepest energetic level.

When this becomes clear, you will be able to bring deeper care, power and skill in co-creating masterfully together. With committing to seeing the highest Self in both the other and yourself, you will be able to raise each other into Superconsciousness, and support each other in coming up for air from the deep unconscious waters of mental conditioning. This is the deepest love possible, which truly enables both of you to support each other with deep devotion & compassion at the Soul level.

Mastering your combined unique conditioning will turn your relationship into a radiant symphony of a Sacred Union with all that is.

Gene Keys compatibility chart
Gene Keys relationship chart
Gene Keys relationship chart

The Gene Keys Venus sequence is the art of returning non-love with love. It integrates rapid awakening and deep healing. If you wish to shine your full light and loving presence, and show up fully as your loving true nature, the work required is to wake up to the part of you which is beyond the mind. From this deeper presence you can become liberated from your mental trigger patterns, and honor all your relationships as faces of the Divine. This depth can only be reached by a guided meditation and contemplation practice. When your presence strengthens, you will truly appreciate relationships as a vessel for reaching higher consciousness. Have you ever yearned to develop the eye to see the divinity both in yourself and in others? Practicing compassionate witnessing, Self-Leadership, and seeing the divinity in your loved ones is the greatest Love and blessing you can give, as this creates deep safety and trust, and ultimately this is what empowers both of you to become who you truly are.

Sacred Union is the Bliss of our true nature

The advanced Buddhist awareness training is focusing on the deepening first into shamatha - calm abiding in the nature of reality, and secondly into vipassana - special insight of clear perception of the nature of reality. Seeing the perfection without dualistic concepts of self and other, me and you, here and there, mine and yours. This is what Buddha called the right view of the eightfold noble path. The essence of bliss is the right view. Suffering is simply a feedback of wrong views. In simple terms it is either a forest view or an individual tree view. We are the totality of the forest, and as we realize there have never been an individual tree without the forest we can all begin to be cured from our individuality.